Order of Service for Felix' funeral at Buckfast Abbey

Created by Sophie 7 years ago

  • Hymn

    1. And did those feet in ancient time,
    Walk upon England’s mountains green:
    And was the holy Lamb of God,
    On Englands pleasant pastures seen!

    2. And did the Countenance Divine,
    Shine forth upon our clouded hills?
    And was Jerusalem builded here,
    Among these dark Satanic Mills?

    3 Bring me my Bow of burning gold;
    Bring me my Arrows of desire:
    Bring me my Spear: O clouds unfold!
    Bring me my Chariot of fire!

    4 I will not cease from Mental Fight,
    Nor shall my Sword sleep in my hand:
    Till we have built Jerusalem,
    In Englands green & pleasant Land.

    William Blake 1757 - 1827

    Priest The grace and peace of God our Father, who raised Jesus from the dead, be always with you.
    All And with your spirit.

    Priest My dear people, the Lord is a faithful God who created us all after his own image. All things are of his making, all creation awaits the day of salvation. We now entrust Felix’s soul to the abundant mercy of God, that he may find a home in his kingdom.

    The priest sprinkles the coffin with holy water to symbolize purification and blessing.

    Opening Prayer

    Priest Let us pray,
    God of all consolation, searcher of mind and heart, the faith of those gathered here is known to you. Comfort us with the knowledge that Felix, for whom we grieve, is entrusted now to your loving care.

    We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever.
    All Amen.

    The Liturgy of the Word

    First Reading Read by Camilla McHugh
    A reading from the first letter of Saint Paul to the Corinthians (13: 8-13)
    Love does not come to an end. But if there are gifts of prophecy, the time will come when they must fail; or the gift of languages, it will not continue for ever; and knowledge – for this, too, the time will come when it must fail. For our knowledge is imperfect and our prophesying is imperfect; but once perfection comes, all imperfect things will disappear. When I was a child, I used to talk like a child, and think like a child, and argue like a child, but now I am a man, all childish ways are put behind me. Now we are seeing a dim reflection in a mirror; but then we shall be seeing face to face. The knowledge that I have now is imperfect; but then I shall know as fully as I am known.
    In short, there are three things that last: faith, hope and love; and the greatest of these is love.
    The word of the Lord.
    All: Thanks be to God


    Psalm Read by Louisa Handscombe
    Response (said by all at the end of each verse):
    The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing I shall want

    1 The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing I shall want.
    Fresh and green are the pastures where he gives me repose.
    Near restful waters he leads me,
    To revive my drooping spirit. Response

    2 He guides me along the right path; he is true to his name.
    If I should walk in the valley of darkness no evil would I fear.
    You are there with your crook and your staff;
    with these you give me comfort. Response

    3 You have prepared a banquet for me
    in the sight of my foes.
    My head you have anointed with oil;
    my cup is overflowing. Response

    4 Surely goodness and kindness shall follow me
    all the days of my life.
    In the Lord’s own house shall I dwell
    for ever and ever. Response

    Second Reading
    A reading from the holy Gospel according to John
    In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. The same was in the beginning with God. All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made. In him was life; and the life was the light of men. And the light shineth in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not. There was a man sent from God, whose name was John. The same came for a witness, to bear witness of the Light, that all men through him might believe. He was not that Light, but was sent to bear witness of that Light. That was the true Light, which lighteth every man that cometh into the world. He was in the world, and the world was made by him, and the world knew him not. He came unto his own, and his own received him not. But as many as received him, to them gave the power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name: Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God. And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth.

    The Gospel of the Lord.
    All: Thanks be to God

    The Lord’s Prayer

    Priest Now let us pray as Christ the Lord taught us

    All Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name, thy Kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
    Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.


    Final Prayer
    Priest Let us pray.
    God of mercy, in the mystery of your wisdom you have drawn Felix to yourself. In the midst of our pain and sorrow, we acknowledge you as Lord of the living and the dead and we search for our peace in your will. In these final moments we stand together in prayer, believing in your compassion and generous love. Deliver Felix out of death and grant him a place in your kingdom of peace.
    We ask this through Christ our Lord.

    All Amen
    Please be seated

    The Hill Fort, by Owen Sheers Read by James Gregory


    An extract from The Hobbit by J. R. R. Tolkein
    One of Felix’s favourite books, read by Lucian Murdin


    Eulogy Alex Murdin



    Hymn:

    1 Thine be the glory, risen, conquering Son;
    endless is the victory, thou o'er death hast won;
    angels in bright raiment rolled the stone away,
    kept the folded grave clothes where thy body lay.

    Refrain: Thine be the glory, risen conquering Son,
    Endless is the vict'ry, thou o'er death hast won.

    2. Lo! Jesus meets us, risen from the tomb;
    Lovingly he greets us, scatters fear and gloom;
    let the Church with gladness, hymns of triumph sing;
    for her Lord now liveth, death hath lost its sting. Refrain

    3. No more we doubt thee, glorious Prince of life;
    life is naught without thee; aid us in our strife;
    make us more than conquerors, through thy deathless love:
    bring us safe through Jordan to thy home above. Refrain

    Edmond Budry 1854-1932

    Final Commendation
    Priest Let us commend Felix to the Lord’s merciful keeping as we pray for those who were closest to him. Even as they grieve at the loss of their loved one, they entrust him to the loving embrace of God

    Holy Water, a sign of Baptism - our re-birth in Christ - is now used to bless Felix’s body; incense is burnt, by which we symbolise our prayers for him rising to God and our preparation to hand his body back to God.

    I Know That my Redeemer Liveth G. F. Handel
    Sung by Denise Kehoe

    Prayer of Commendation
    Priest You are the author and sustainer of our lives, O God, you are our final home. We commend Felix to you. Trusting in your mercy and in your all-embracing love, we pray that you give him happiness for ever.
    Turn also to those who have suffered this loss. Strengthen the bonds of this family and our community. Confirm us in faith, in hope and in love, so that we may bear your peace to one another and one day stand together with all the saints who praise you for your saving help.
    We ask this in the name of your Son, Jesus Christ, our Lord.
    All Amen

    Procession from the Church

    May angels lead you into paradise;
    may the martyrs come to welcome you
    and take you to the holy city,
    the new and eternal Jerusalem.